MALE CHAUVINIST AND MANUAL ON HOW TO EAT HIM ON BREAKFAST

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We often hear about male chauvinists and sexism attacks as we are living in big gender battle, where every side is proving its’ priority. I have the feeling that men and women are locked in some sort of perpetual, zero-sum conflict.

So, lets see the main characteristics of male chauvinists in order to recognize them and build our defense strategy. Informed means armed.

The big fat sign of such kind of man is that he doesn’t trust your judgment and he is underlining this fact. Always. Such a person truly believes that a woman is not able to take any decision from life important ones to how to get the right stuff from grocery.

Next major sign of this men disease is keeping on criticizing you, just because you are the woman. They do not have the option of accepting the fact that a woman is capable to do good job. From such a man you’ll hear that your job could be better, the food you cook is not right, the books you love are useless, the clothes you wear are inappropriate and this list could be extended until infinity. They will criticize all your ideas, do their best to find faults in your work and never appreciate what you are doing.

Other symptom of this severe disorder is that he wants to control your life using several mechanisms to achieve his goal. First, he will try to dominate over you as much as possible and at the end of the day he will make you feel like the worst person on planet Earth. Second weapon is adaily trial to make convince you that you are an incapable creature, unable to make decisions. And the third one – his intervention, which will be everywhere, he will try to teach you how to hold the fork and knife and try to influence even very womanish things like your make up and the right height of heels. Such a person will try to control your socializing circle, he will find a lot of disadvantages in your girlfriends and even in your family members.

If such person is in your workspace – just ignore him cold-bloodedly and continue to do your job in the right way with a shiny smile on your face.  Itworks!

The question is what happens if one day we discover some symptoms in our partner, friend, close relative, in person who is very important in our life.

Run away? Run away yesterday?

No, truly love them and show them that you do – this is main key to save them from chronic insecurity which is driving them to chauvinistic behavior. And remember male chauvinists are not born, they are created by women.